As we enter the Advent Season, we had our family Christmas card photo shoot last week. Our photographer, Julie Heisey, got some amazing photos of us. But then when it came time to sit down and get the cards ordered and update our address list, I started to feel extremely stressed. After talking about the reasons behind my stress, (I had just reviewed our calendar for the next two weeks and it is jammed packed) we came to the decision that we were going to discontinue sending out Christmas cards. This may be temporary, but in this season of our lives, it is just not feasible to get it done. So, instead, we decided that we would post our annual update letter along with a photograph of our family. (Due to confidentiality rules for our foster baby, we are unable to show her face at this time on the Internet.)
December,
2015
This
has been a year where we have grown in our faith as we faced the challenges in
our lives. It was discovered after
Cathy’s mom surgery in December that she has Stage IV Colon Cancer. This was a devastating blow to her parents
but we knew that it was in God’s hands.
She spent this year undergoing chemotherapy and radiation
treatments. We helped them have a huge
party in June to celebrate their 51st wedding anniversary at which
time they renewed their vows. She
continues to work on getting her strength back and we are praying for a clean
scan in a few weeks.
Mark
& Cathy celebrated their 25th wedding anniversary in
January. Mark continues his role as an
elementary school principal in the Tempe School District and is also an adjunct
faculty member at Grand Canyon University.
Cathy began teaching training foster parenting classes for future foster
parents at their licensing agency.
Vanessa
turned 18 in February and subsequently made some decisions that did not mix
with our family values and she was asked to move out and figure out life on her
own. We sought counsel from our pastors
as this decision was very hard for us but we will not support her current
choices. She has free will and we pray
daily that her heart will soften.
Suzy
is 15 and a sophomore and she continues to play trumpet in the high school
marching band and she has also joined the church’s youth band as one of the
vocalists. She continues to work hard in
school, even though it is very difficult for her. Her perseverance is truly admirable.
Pablo is 13 and in 8th grade and he continues to be an excelling student and, along with being an great clarinet player, we have discovered that he is a very talented pianist. Both he and Suzy performed in the high school talent show last month. Pablo played Fur Elise on the piano and Suzy sang a duet with one of her close friends.
Tyler is 9 and in 4th grade. He is doing very well in school and loves singing in the church KIDZ Choir and AWANA at church. He is becoming quite the artist.
Issac
is 7 and in 2nd grade. He is
(finally!) in a regular education classroom.
He still receives services for his learning disability but he is making
great strides and is reading! His
stuttering is very minimal now.
Adrian
is 5 and in Kindergarten. He was named
an excelling SOAR student this first trimester in school. Only one child in each class was awarded
this. He loves school and he is
beginning to read.
Chase
is 4 and has become Mr Bossy Pants. He
loves attending church and especially AWANA.
We still call him Smiley as his smile still lights up a room.
Laura
is 3 and is a huge trouble maker. Her
cuteness just melts our hearts but her knack for destroying everything can be
downright annoying. She loves being a big sister to Sweetie.
Sweetie
is now almost 17 months old. She is
still considered medically fragile and we spend time at Phoenix Children’s
Hospital and with other specialists having tests run to see how she is
doing. She walked at 12 months, which
amazed her physical therapist. She
finally started saying dada and momma this past month. We had hoped to announce her adoption in the
newsletter as it was scheduled to be held on November 21st, but we
hit a technical bump that is being resolved.
Jessica
spent a couple of months in Arizona over the summer and we were so blessed to
have some time with her and Bear. We
were sad when she made the decision to move back to California.
As
you have read, this has definitely been the year of challenges yet we have much
to be thankful for! We have seen God do
amazing things through these challenges and our family is much stronger because
of it. We pray that as we enter this
Advent season where we are reminded of Christ’s sacrifice of giving up his
heavenly form to become human to save us, that we will continue to remember
what is truly important. Merry Christmas!
The Eley's Mark, Cathy, Suzy, Pablo, Tyler, Isaac, Adrian, Chase, Laura, & Sweetie |